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Why Are Some Relationships So Difficult? ???????` 
Ever heard about how it's hard for someone to love you when you don't love yourself? It's a big relationship roadblock when one or both people struggle with self-esteem problems. Your girlfriend or boyfriend isn't there to make you feel good about yourself if you can't do that on your own. Focus on being happy with yourself, and don't take on the responsibility of worrying about someone else's happiness.What if you feel that your girlfriend or boyfriend needs too much from you? If the relationship feels like a burden or a drag instead of a joy, it might be time to think about whether it's a healthy match for you. Someone who's not happy or secure may have trouble being a healthy relationship partner,
Relationships can be one of the best — and most challenging — parts of your world. They can be full of fun, romance, excitement, intense feelings, and occasional heartache, too. Whether you're single or in a relationship, remember that it's good to be choosy about who you get close to. If you're still waiting, take your time and get to know plenty of people.
Think about the qualities you value in a friendship and see how they match up with the ingredients of a healthy relationship. Work on developing those good qualities in yourself — they make you a lot more attractive to others. And if you're already part of a pair, make sure the relationship you're in brings out the best in both of you. take it slow ppl. don't rush into a relationship ,let it grow and try to know your other half in every aspect of the word .................... growing old with your love and still keeping the spark alive is key and is possible ,if especially men learn to compromise.....

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jr on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:35 PM
well i think everyone shud first know and learn to love themselves above everything else and should not depend on their partner to do it for them. your partners love shud compliment the love one has for themslef. and there is nothing wrong with being single some ppl think they alwasy need to have someone not realizing that being single has alot of benefits.
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DANIA on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:37 PM
I dont know but while reading this blog it makes me feela bit emotional, because I can relate to some part of it. Talking about a healthy relationship, compromising is the main ingredient to mine...
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Richard Reid on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:43 PM
My personal Opinion is most relationships are difficult because A) both persons in the relationship were never taight how to act in a relationship B) the persons in the relationship do not value each other as they should and c) Most couples are not being guided on how to behave in a relationship.
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Leidroc on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:03 PM
Relationships can definitely take a lot of work. I agree that persons should love themselves first before attempting to love someone else. I think that some persons may be selfish and think only of themselves which can lead to hurt and heartbreak. So I live by the motto "Treat others how you want to be treated."


FTAYLOR on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:21 PM
RICHARD ...WE ARE ALL ADULTS HERE SO WE SHOULD NOT BE TAUGHT HOW TO TREAT OUR PARTNER, WE SHOULD KNOW HOW TO LOVE AND CARE FOR THEM.. IN AND TREAT OTHERS AS WE WANT THEM TO TREAT US....................


c.williams on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:44 PM
relationship is life with alot of sign trust me sometime we give and take until our cup over flow. but just remember loving your self or some one isnt about how long you love but the way to love. try care before you love and you will understand.
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Dr.Swags on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:52 PM
i like this but what if i dont want to grow old with "my love" Im still young i have plenty time to find the special one until then ill be exploring all my options...lol..Personally i dont believe in that one "true love"thats a make up world.Most ppl who dont believe in the true love thing hardly ge hurt or dissapointed so i thinks its healthier for you not to fall in love. P.S not saying all ppl that fall in love will get hurt or get their heart broken but as it relates to me its best not to.That way u wont cry a river when u find out your kid isnt yours or your wife has been sleeping with yor bestfriend for years or your wife u worked in the blisstering cold to provide for leaves you for a rich man. But really nice topic i like it.
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Jae on Thursday, July 7, 2011 3:55 PM
I agree TOTALLY with the "especially if men learn to compromise" part. If couples learn to listen to each other, the relationship will grow.
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meisha on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:06 PM
you make your relationship wat it is!!! so each person should just work together to get the best result
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J.G on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:33 PM
Relationships can be a very wonderful thing. Finding that special someone to share your life with is what everyone wants. Learning to love and respect each other is one of the key things to keep that relationship going.
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DD on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:40 PM
Relationship can be great if both person know exactly what they want and dont get carried away by vanity and other worldly things(if thats d word) I believe in family and having a family start with a successful relationship, if u want stability in ur life then you ought to make ur relationship work by comprising and communicating as much as possible.
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Jahdonia on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:43 PM
well said


ABG on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:48 PM
Very interesting, Ill use this point when planning to hook up with someone
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SueNeShan on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:49 PM
I understand all that your saying. But does the line between copmprising and cahnge occur. You may be ahppy with who you are and all you reprensent and because of the person your with you make changes to satisfy them and in return stifle the real you.
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Kia on Thursday, July 7, 2011 4:51 PM
Real Talk!! I believe a relationship can be viewed a as plant or flower as long as you put in the time and effort you will surely reap great rewards
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FT on Thursday, July 7, 2011 5:44 PM
THANK U EVERYONE FOR YOUR COMMENTS ...GREATLY APPRECIATED......
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